Sexo: The 7 Keys to Human Desire
It is often thought that in man desire is self-evident. However, sometimes the excitement is not always the rendezvous … The coach Florence Escaravage reveals to you the seven keys of the male desire.

Sexo: The 7 Keys to Human Desire
Sexo: The 7 Keys to Human Desire

The physical form

In man, the energy used to make love comes mainly from a well-known hormone: testosterone. It is one of the first physical causes influencing male libido. In this sense, too low a level of testosterone (hormonal disruption) can even lead to infertility. Some predispositions lead to reduced levels of testosterone, such as alcoholism, drug use (marijuana, cocaine) or diabetes …

Vitamin E and zinc are essential nutrients to feed the sexual glands. Vitamin E sometimes referred to as “sex vitamin,” helps oxygenate the blood that engulfs the erect penis. It is found in foods such as wheat germ; cold-pressed oils, nuts, eggs, sweet potatoes and leafy vegetables. Zinc prevents impotence and increases the sperm count in humans. It is found in pumpkin seeds, oysters (often called “aphrodisiacs”), nutritional yeast, wheat germ, soybeans, and eggs. Coffee and alcohol destroy zinc.

Love your body

The image we have of ourselves is essential to our relationships with others. A priori, when it comes to the domain of the intimate. Indeed, no one wants to feel rejected or to be the object of mockery. Nothing is more healthy then that a man not knowing to appreciate physically does not dare to abandon himself sexually: it associates the impression of dissatisfaction reflected him by his reflection to that perceived by his partner.

If this is the case for your man, help him regain self-confidence by reassuring attitudes and words. By showing him that you love him as he is with his qualities but also his small defects … He will then be able to let go a little more because the loved one strengthens his love: he learns to accept himself as he Is and the fear of not being up to it will fade over time.

Loving the physical appearance of the other

For a man, the physical presence of his partner has a lot to do with his sex. Man needs to be titillated to be able to desire. It is not here to meet the requirements of individual beauty canons promoted by many women’s magazines but to deploy your seduction. Explanations:

The main thing is to show your man that you want to seduce him. How? By taking care of you, your body, wearing sexy outfits, putting your physical assets in value, all the means that contribute to send signals essential to the emergence of the desire of man.

The fantasies

Different studies show that 90 to 95% of men and women have fantasies.
This is how fantasies play a significant role in the sex life: they are the fruit of the imagination by which we seek to escape the grip of daily living. Thus, for man, fantasy is all a compromise between impulses and interdicts.

Fantasies are part of life by setting up scenarios that give access to desire and pleasure: making love differently (adopting new positions, using sex toys , etc.), in unusual places ( In an elevator, on the beach, in a public place, etc.), braving social prohibitions are so many ways to spice up the sex life so that it does not get bogged down in routine.

The anticipation

Thinking about sex arouses in man the desire to make love: he then contemplates what he can do to make the sexual act concrete. To project oneself on the pleasures which this will procure for him is a psychological means which leads him to convince him of the possibilities offered to him. By working his imagination, he self-influences positively while at the same time taking consciousness of his body and that of his partner.

In short, allowing your man to imagine intimate scenes promotes sexual interest and regain. How? For example, by calling him at his desk and sending him sweet and erotic words to make him shine what awaits him in the evening on his way home from work … Be suggestive: The whole thing is that he is mentally prepared to live sad moments, Be it titillated by what you propose to him …

The action

Yes, there is nothing better to stimulate desire than to make love naturally …
It is a matter of habit, rhythm: the less you do, the less you want. Also, do not forget that, contrary to what is believed, the man also needs preliminaries to live the sexual act better. Striptease, intimate caresses, erotic massage, fellatio, of course, these preambles allow him to disinhibit better and let his pleasure go crescendo.

Love

In spite of the common idea that in the sexual act it is not necessarily necessary to be in a state of love to “consume,” various studies show that precisely the love sentiment pushes the man to experience more desire And enjoy making love with his partner.
Testosterone, oxytocin, endorphins … All these hormones are freed to great floods during the encounter of love. This results in a high impact on the body and therefore on sexuality. In this sense, the loving man multiplies his reproductive potential: the desire, the willingness to enjoy, to dare to go to the end of his fantasies. No lover escapes such a hormonal influx that transforms the body and the psyche. This is expressed in particular by the need to merge, to be in osmosis with the other by feeding on carnal pleasures,

As you can see, sexual desire in both men and women requires a particular environment and context in which to express themselves optimally. To this end, certain principles must be respected. However, above all, within the couple, to know and to say to each other that in love nothing is acquired and that everything is to be maintained …

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