Orgasm: all you need to know: When it comes to love, and more precisely sex, there are questions that one asks oneself, but which one does not always dare to ask. The gynecologist Sylvain Mimoun answers some of our concerns to know the orgasm better, to recognize it … and completely appreciate it!

Orgasm: all you need to know
Orgasm: all you need to know

What is orgasm?

Some women think they have never had an orgasm. To know it, we must be able to recognize it?

How to recognize an orgasm?

If you feel during a sexual encounter that the excitement will crescendo and then it is followed by a relaxing, even slight, then yes, you have had an orgasm. Of course, in reality, orgasms are not necessarily punctuated with deafening screams (for the neighbors and your partner!).

Clitoral Orgasm?

It is the remark that girls do most often: “I only enjoy the clitoris.”

Be aware that this is the case for most women, as 80% of them say they get pleasure only in this way, during sex or masturbation. So nothing abnormal, on the contrary!

Orgasm simultaneous to all the blows?

Obviously, “Simultaneous orgasm is the top.” It is always nice to be in phase with each other.

However, if you are “obsessed” with a simultaneous orgasm at all costs, you will achieve the opposite result. Plus, one seeks the full enjoyment, the less you let go.

The fantasies, the key to orgasm?

It is not just men who fantasize abundantly. Some women explained that they can “enjoy only by fantasizing” …

No worries to be had. That does not make you a perverse or a mysterious lady, and that no matter what scenario you imagine. One often needs to think about a situation, a person, to create mental excitement. Fantasy is a caress of the mind.

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Orgasm, every time?

Another simple reflection, and normal: “I do not reach orgasm every time.”

Rest assured, it is much easier for men to have orgasms than for women. Do not put yourself under pressure; the most important is not to spend a pleasant time together, to caress, to have fun? The important thing for a couple is to make love, even if the orgasm is not always at the rendezvous.

The vaginal orgasm

Less common as speech, but more frequent than can be imagined: “The vaginal pleasure that I feel is more intense than the clitoral pleasure.”

Vaginal pleasure is considered (sometimes wrongly) as the supreme orgasm because it irradiates throughout the body, like a soothing wave. While clitoral pleasure is described as a more localized electrical discharge. Many women know only the latter. If you taste both, it is a great chance since, in this case, the wave of well-being that crosses you is diffuse and dark.

The preliminaries, essential to orgasm?

Men and women are not equal when it comes to preliminaries. Often women explain that they “need lengthy preliminaries to reach orgasm” and that this tends to aggravate their partner.

No panic, it is normal because men are physiologically two to three times faster than women to achieve pleasure. In this area, they are sometimes impatient or ignorant. Do not hesitate to show your partner how to do, the caresses that excite you, explain to him that the preliminaries allow a better lubrication, therefore a more intense penetration. However, if, despite these love games, it takes you more than half an hour to reach orgasm, it is likely that the first 20 minutes have only served to relax you, not to excite you. In this case, to facilitate the release required for pleasure, do relaxation or yoga sessions to relax tensions.

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