I want to deceive my wife: is it a good idea? Do you have to put your couple in danger?
When you are a couple, you may be tempted to look elsewhere. However, to deceive his wife and be unfaithful, is it worth it?
I have just received a question from a man who tells me he wants to deceive his wife and asks me if it is a “good idea” to deceive her. I do not hide from you that as a love coach, I am a fervent supporter of love and its foundations. Fidelity is part of it, and that is why this article will help you answer the question by becoming aware of all the factors that you are surely obscuring today.
You feel like you do not have any more feelings for your wife, but you can not tell her? You have children in common, but no more attraction for her and you think that adultery would be a compromise to stay with her while satisfying your sexual desires? What are the alternatives for not deceiving his wife but also being happy in his sentimental life?
Do not think your situation is unique! Whether it is the men or women I coach, I get a lot of questions about it and the family stability to keep in those conditions. Before you get to the bottom of this article, you must know that each choice you make will bring you to situations you may not have considered.
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To deceive his wife: for what?
The only situation that can be “explicable” concerns men who experience a lightning strike intense for another woman than their companion. From that moment there is no longer any doubt that these men will make the decision to rebuild their lives because they have found their happiness in close to another person.
On the other hand, if you ask yourself “Do I have to deceive my wife?”, You should first ask yourself what were the exact reasons why you asked yourself this question.
The purpose can not be a situation of adultery; you must understand the “WHY” of your decision as well as the future that it will bring you.
Everyone cheats on his wife, so why not me?
Lately, I was coaching with a man who said, “But Alexander, everybody cheats on his wife, so why can not I?” I do not believe that infidelity is an end. Will it allow you to be happier than in the past?
I would not say that infidelity is an easy solution, but I think that many situations deserve special attention. Take a step back and redo the thread of your story. If you are now with your wife, it is because there is necessarily a reason that made you fall in love with this person. It is now up to you to go back and ask if being unfaithful will be a way for you to be fulfilled.
Without thinking about saving your couple, here’s what to do …
Gentlemen, do not believe that I do not understand your discomfort. I know how suffering in a couple of life can lead to depression every day. Moreover, yet, there are solutions. The first is to take the time to communicate with your wife. To be successful, I recommend that you do not talk about your feelings or your discomfort, but that you should give them specific solutions and correct actions to avoid continuing to make you unhappy.
If the dialogue does not work, then you need an electric shock. Before thinking of going elsewhere if the grass is greener there, you should do everything to take the distance, even if to even carry out a “break” that can overcome the problems of understanding of your wife.
Similarly, if you continually seek to protect her and not hurt her in your communications, then you will never be able to give her cards to change her behavior. It is up to you to take control of the situation.
It is common in our society to consider that it is often the man who is unfaithful. Moreover, yet, when I base myself on my coaching experience, I realize that women may also have the idea of deceiving their husbands.
Is that necessary? It is up to you to form an opinion. However, very often, you do not know the consequences that this can cause. It is common in our society to consider that it is often the man who is unfaithful. Moreover, yet, when I base myself on my coaching experience, I realize that women may also have the idea of deceiving their husbands. Is that necessary? It is up to you to form an opinion. However, very often, you do not know of the consequences that this can cause.
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